You mentioned law of attraction in our discussion. Is there anything we can do for the numerous times we have had knowingly/unknowingly grumbled upon others behavior and had bad thoughts about them? I am sorry for my ill thoughts and wondering if I can do anything about it. In one discussion, you said there needs to be more awareness between husband and wife. I feel there are quite a few misunderstandings between us and what can I do to increase awareness between us?
The Law of attraction is heavy to digest, I understand. But whatever we did in the past, is in the past, let it be there. Stop making it a part of your present or future even. If you have learnt not to make a certain mistake, just be sincere about not repeating it in future. Love yourself dearly, if you start loving yourself 100%, you will be able to apply Kshama and move on.
Now start observing your own mind, your own emotions, your own body, be a sakshi (witness), to all that is happening. Without craving, without aversion, just observe what this body is doing, observe what the mind is saying, observe what emotions are rising, observe as if you are outside of it all. You are watching a movie 🙂 Then you will not be responsible for attracting or rejecting anything. It will continue to flow on account of Karma and Prakruti (doshas and gunas).
The same will help in building your awareness not only in your relationship but in every aspect of your life. The effort from your side will itself inspire your partner. Just lead by example, focus your energy in this direction and you will automatically attract Peace and Awareness!
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